We know many women drop in to Steami now and then so this might directly be relevant. Otherwise, for a better experience in the sack, you might want to have your girlfriend or wife run through this.

1. Show a Little Enthusiasm!
Tantalizing Tip: Take the initiative! Wake him up with a below-the-belt kiss. Send him a naughty text message midway through the day. In bed, get into the moment by looking into his eyes and telling him how eager you are to be with him.

2. Speak Up!
Tantalizing Tip: Pop open a bottle of wine and initiate a little game of truth-or-dare. Or surprise him with a spicy flick and point
out the scenes you’d be open to trying. There’s a good chance he’d like to experiment, too, but is keeping it to himself because he doesn’t want to offend you.

3. Love Those Thighs!
Tantalizing Tip: Illuminate the bedroom, living room or even kitchen with candles, which give a soft glow that glides over perceived imperfections. Give him the visualization he craves and get off on the fact that you are the reason for every moan and squirm your man makes!

4. Know Thyself!
Tantalizing Tip: If you’re like many gals and the manual approach leaves you feeling less than thrilled, simply find something else to tickle your fancy. After a few solo sessions, bring your man into the action for a steamy one-on-one lesson.

5. Come On, Gals, Fantasize!
Tantalizing Tip: Try verbal exploration! Talk him through a threesome or ask him to pretend he’s a stranger. Sharing these kinds of experiences will not only spark amazing sex, but they will also build trust and intimacy, which is always sexy. Discuss boundaries beforehand (some couples have a code word to signal the other to stop when acting out scenarios), and remember, comfort is key, so don’t participate in anything that makes you uncomfortable.

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